pat-tekker-cat
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I wasn't going to post this, I guess sometimes I just have to get things out of me, too.
ok,
crispen, ty for the info. I've always contended that the heart and brain operate on different electrical frequencies. Does the heart control the head or the head control the heart? I read long long times ago, Edgar Cayce comparing the 12 cranial nerves to the 12 oarsman from the Egyptian Book of the dead. I can't find the Cayce story, and it's been ages since I read EBOD, I may look at that again.
Yep, coffee and beach tekkering! Good for the mind!
2GF, I would hope your higher self would come through and you would be the example of someone that treats another they care about, the way they would want to be treated. Those boys are learning about ppl and relationships, from observation. If they were to see, you could withdraw love from someone you're so close to, that may can leave them to wonder, would you withdraw that love from them, also? True proper Love, should never be conditional.
No matter what another does to you, don't allow them to provoke your better thinking and higher self.
There is tremendous power in forgiveness. First, is that it allows the brain to do what it was designed to do, and that is, to keep STRESS at reduced and/or acceptable levels.
Second, anger, hurt, and hate is more damaging to the vessel that it is held within, than the one it is poured out upon. Think about what your thoughts are doing to you! Mentally and physically. Forgiveness is nothing more, than the ACCEPTANCE of something being the way that it is, and not the way YOU want it to be. Once a mind can ACCEPT reality and let it go, it can be physically felt within that person.
It ain't got NOTHING to do with letting someone of the hook for something, it has EVERYTHING to do, with controlling your own mind/body. These things take strength, so please do view them as a weakness, they are not!
The only thing that is certain, is change. Nothing, no one, not one of us, are the same person, we were just two minutes ago. Everything is in a flux of change, of some sort or another.
If the above is done correctly, you will reduce stress. If not done correctly, or other "outlets" to dealing, is needed, and needed, and another outlet needed, then you are increasing stress, not reducing it.
ok I'm off my soapbox
LOL!, the squiggerator! LOL!
ok,
crispen, ty for the info. I've always contended that the heart and brain operate on different electrical frequencies. Does the heart control the head or the head control the heart? I read long long times ago, Edgar Cayce comparing the 12 cranial nerves to the 12 oarsman from the Egyptian Book of the dead. I can't find the Cayce story, and it's been ages since I read EBOD, I may look at that again.
Yep, coffee and beach tekkering! Good for the mind!
2GF, I would hope your higher self would come through and you would be the example of someone that treats another they care about, the way they would want to be treated. Those boys are learning about ppl and relationships, from observation. If they were to see, you could withdraw love from someone you're so close to, that may can leave them to wonder, would you withdraw that love from them, also? True proper Love, should never be conditional.
No matter what another does to you, don't allow them to provoke your better thinking and higher self.
There is tremendous power in forgiveness. First, is that it allows the brain to do what it was designed to do, and that is, to keep STRESS at reduced and/or acceptable levels.
Second, anger, hurt, and hate is more damaging to the vessel that it is held within, than the one it is poured out upon. Think about what your thoughts are doing to you! Mentally and physically. Forgiveness is nothing more, than the ACCEPTANCE of something being the way that it is, and not the way YOU want it to be. Once a mind can ACCEPT reality and let it go, it can be physically felt within that person.
It ain't got NOTHING to do with letting someone of the hook for something, it has EVERYTHING to do, with controlling your own mind/body. These things take strength, so please do view them as a weakness, they are not!
The only thing that is certain, is change. Nothing, no one, not one of us, are the same person, we were just two minutes ago. Everything is in a flux of change, of some sort or another.
If the above is done correctly, you will reduce stress. If not done correctly, or other "outlets" to dealing, is needed, and needed, and another outlet needed, then you are increasing stress, not reducing it.
ok I'm off my soapbox
LOL!, the squiggerator! LOL!