Re: UPDATE: White's Forum/What the Heck is Going ON
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mgtmadness said:
That is just my 2 cents.
I have not reported anyone even if I do not agree with what they say or said or even for there avatar's. Only for spam.
Howdy Amigo!
While I can relate to your sentiments, you express them without any need to
attack anybody. You give your perspective with clarity and dignity. I don't have
an issue with that. Going after somebody and slamming them (flaming) isn't a
good way to approach issues of that sort.
I may not particularly like an avatar that another user may have, but I won't slam
them in an open forum either. I am more inclined to express my concerns with the
individual in question directly, man to man. (or suitable variant thereof).
There ain't no need to attack another user. If somebody doesn't like something of
that ilk, that's what the mods are there for. A note to the other user first should be
the way to open a dialog. Slamming somebody simply slams the door of fellowship
among members, and isn't necessary or appropriate in my humble opinion.
We can disagree with one another, but we can do so in a friendly and constructive
manner. At least, that's my two zincolns worth.
When one member is open to being flamed, then who is next? For what reason?
For what offense to another? We can disagree respectfully, and address our concern
directly with one another. That would be a reasonable first step. From there, it can
be taken to the mods for their consideration if necessary. But flaming another member
just ain't the way to go about things, and all that really does is breed hard feelings and
animosity.
We are like a family. We might not always agree on everything, but can disagree while
remaining friends, eh? Does this make any sense?
Thanks for your perspective.
Much obliged.
Blessings,
M-Taliesin