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As in Not all gifts are good? I can appreciate that perspective as well.
Maybe more how they are used than what they are ,and when too many are perhaps misusing ,what are the odds those with them will too?
A family's view,and the societal view of them can differ. When both result in tiptoeing around individuals ...the choice is to do the same,or be involved, or both.
When finding out in hindsite a repetition was happening ,and the cloak over the first (?) go around ;why focus on what's already hard to avoid?
It's not like finding a lost item in the last place you look. Or why a place is checked in the order it is,that's logic,reasoning and deduction.
It's a different way of looking ,while disassociated with the having to look and just looking.
A helper tracking or recovering an item is more successful when their emotions are tamer than the shooter or owner.
When someone finds our keys,glasses or whatever after we looked it is often when we are amped up /mildly flustered....and vise versa when we find a lost item for them easily. That "don't have to" combined with "can" and no normal pressure of being , allows greater ease.