Crispin, while truly I appreciate the sentiment, I no longer care to be part of a group where fellow members say things like "Sounds like it's time for a hiatus, and frankly Ben, I don't care what you think". There is a certain level of disrespect there which goes well beyond a simple disagreement. Several little incidents have taken place but have been kept quiet and I am pretty sure most of you know what I am referring to.
Unfortunately, I think this recent little squabble has brought to light an issue that has been swept under the rug and kept hushed for some time now. Speaking ones mind is no longer "accepted" amongst this group. Everyone must be like minded and pretend to get along. IMO, for some it is easy. For others, it is painful and awkward. IMO, that is not why I joined this group in the first place.
If we are truly a group of individuals, then why do the others in the group seem so inclined to stifle one's individuality?
All the best,
Just my 2 cents...