Fascinating story. I have read if you suspect spirits are about to ask if you can help. I guess the best course is to keep the lines of communication open

I've also read no one has ever been harmed by a ghost but demons may be another matter. Sounds like your lodger was beset by a succubus although I thought they were supposed to be beautiful.
Not that long ago marrying a girl of 12-14 was not uncommon.
I love old two story houses. Never have seen a ghost.
We lived on a farm outside Washburn MO with a single story old home built on the site where a home had burned down. One cold morning a woman threw kerosene in on the coals of the woodstove and flames blew out catching the woman's dress on fire among other things I suppose. Her and an infant died in the fire.
I slept in a room off the kitvhen and had found a half dollar sized red glass tear drop pendant somewhere. I hung the pendant on a string from the ceiling to catch sunlight.
One day I was sitting out there at a old desk salvaged from a train station. The pendant was about eye level and maybe a foot away. Suddenly it began to shake violently as if someone was jiggling it. Of course I was staring. The movement continued for several moments and then stopped. The air was not moving, nothing else was quivering. This is the only un natural event I have ever experienced.
Well, about three years ago my brother and I went to a flea market and on one of the walls formed by two by fours and chicken wire I saw a Halloween prop. Long black silky hooded shroud and a plastic head. Something about her face and the whole thing just caught at me. But I didn't buy her. I could not get the creature out of my head and a couple of days later went back and brought her home. Maybe fourteen dollars.
I sleep in a room next to the garage. I hung her up for a bit and was satisfied. Because of the dog I couldn't leave her anywhere he could play with her so I put her in a plastic bag and in a laundry basket in the next room before I got in bed. A few minutes later I heard soft crying sounds coming from the outer room!
I lay there listening and the sound came again. On the verge of being half asleep I thought It's okay. This was directed at her. Apparently I thought I could communicate telepathically with her. As I said, I was sleepy. There was no more crying.
Halloween 2018 I took her out in the dark and took a picture of her. She hasn't been vocal since the first night

That could be easily explained by my drowsiness and my imagination. But I did hear the soft crying and it came from the room. Edit: Click on the pic and it will right itself. Maybe she is messing with me

Second edit: oops it did but now it doesn't.
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