Wow ...This is really a good thread.
I am not the best detectorist...I dont have the fancy equipment and we all know I hate to dig deep.,....Oh I will crawl into a rabbit hole,cave ,root cellar or mudpit...cripes I hate digging through roots.
But Lord knows I love detecting ...Cant get enough of it and I would do it full time if I could. I actually go through withdrawls as soon as it freezes and I cant dig.
I really think that if you have a passion for something, that it makes up for what you might lack in other areas of expertise. Not a greedy passion.....but a pure passion.
I have a passion for history and research. When I am hunting an old area, I transend myself back to that time and try to think like the people of that era did....what were their daily routines, where would they walk, do yard chores, build their outbuildings, I watch my girls run off and play, thinking that all children would act the same way, finding little spots to play or hide. I try to pick the route they would walk to a neighbors cabin or the paths they took to school or the fishing spot.
Its just not the detecting, its finding a relic that was used long ago and holding it in your hands...a small brooch, thimble or token that you know someone wore with love, a tool that is so worn from daily use or a button from some lost soldiers coat.To be able to sit along a quiet river and eat your lunch...knowing that the pioneers of long ago did the same .....We are rescuing not only history,but someones memories.
I dont want to hunt with people who take the fun out of it. If you are going to sit and tell me how I swing wrong or go into technical crap that I dont even care about, it ruins it for me....I am out there for the pure enjoyment of the hobby...I can get excited over a beep from an Indian Head and do a happy dance all over the place....and I will do the same dance when someone finds a silver capped half dollar and feel the happiness for them . It doesnt have to be my find to get me happy!
And its been the best hobby that I can do with my daughters. From our digging up ghost towns and spending nights camping deep in the forest to researching, sorting and studying what we find, has really taught them so much that books can't do. I feel like I am really giving them alot out of life ,that costs very little except my time.
I know that this forum has helped me tremendously. Reading the techniques and advice from the pro's has made me a better hunter. Maybe retaining what you learn from the past has alot to do with hunting skill...and the attention to detail..I know that I can ask the dumbest questions and someone will give me an answer without crucifying me.
I don't need to be the smartest person out there ,because I have all of your brains to help me out. I don't have to be the best or find the best...I just have to detect....
So I think being a good detectorist is a combination of many things...integrity,respect for the land and others, luck ,learned skills, and passion.