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lonewolfe

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So you wanna be a treasure hunter huh!?

You find your way to this forum (or one like it) one day, and are fascinated by what you're reading... You've dreamt about finding treasure since the days you were a child when hanging out with your friends, and pretending to search for buried pirate treasures... You read more, and more of the stories & look at all the amazing finds posted on the boards... You find yourself thinking about these stories, and pictures and questioning yourself as to if you should buy a detector, and join in the fun...

One day you wake up, and make a decision to buy a metal detector... A few weeks pass, and you make a few good finds as you spend every spare minute you can detecting in places you never thought of going or being in... A few more weeks pass, and you realize that you've now become addicted to finding as much treasure as possible, and you spend hrs upon hrs not only researching, but posting on the forum, and also, ordering & reading old books, maps and newspapers that will give any little clues as to where a treasure may be had... After a few months pass, while a few of your friends continually call asking where you've been, and why you've not been at the regular social events, etc. you then reveal what you've been doing, and you recruit one of them into becoming your treasure hunting buddy... Meanwhile, your wife has been asking when you're going to stop with this ridiculous new hobby that has been consuming your almost every waking moment...

By now, many months, or even a year or more has passed, and you and your treasure hunting pal have been on many adventures in many new areas of your state (and possibly a few others)... You've shared good times, and bad times as some days have been successful while others were total washes... You've both found enough relics, and coins, and other items to just about open a museum... Still more time goes by and one day your buddy calls with the news that his wife is leaving him... She's told him time and time again over the last year or more, that he spends too much time chasing stupid treasure hunting dreams, and or researching places to find things but never enough time with her anymore... You tell your friend that maybe she's just feeling a little left out, and that if he spends some time with her, she'll forget all about it, and everything will pass... 2 weeks later your buddy and you are setting a time to meet for searching a new place you've been researching for months... You pull up, and get out, ask him how's everything, and he then tells you she's gone, she took everything, and isn't coming back... You say you're sorry, and ask if there's anything you can do, but he gives you that look of just forget about it, and says, lets go hunting...

A few weeks later you wake up one morning, and ask yourself "what if it were me, and my wife leaving" and what has my life become?? You think to yourself that maybe you've been spending too much time chasing this dream, and maybe you should slow down before you get the same news one day... 2.5 to 3 yrs have passed since you picked up that 1st detector now, and you look around your living room only to find stacks of mags on treasure hunting, books & maps on researching old sites to hunt, along with several detectors, and accessories... Several times in the last 2 or 3 yrs, you've been late for work after being up 1/2 the night detecting long forgoten properties from long ago, and or have missed several days of work while doing such...

Your friend hasn't called you in weeks, and weeks because he met a new girlfriend, and has since forgotten what a detector is used for... Another year goes by, and you're just about totally oblivious to anything around you outside of anything that relates to detecting and or treasure hunting in some form... You mark spots on maps that you've carried in your car for the last 2 or more years while driving in unknown areas/etc... You scan the roadside as you're driving to/from work or on your way to somewhere with the family, looking for anything to give you any indication of some forgotten old property that may hold a few old coins, relics, etc... You find yourself talking to strangers asking them about history of the town, and or asking them if they will let you detect on their land when only 2 or 3 years ago, you wouldn't have even dreamed of doing anything like this...

The months and years go by, and several detectors have come and gone... You just opened a new box that arrived today with your newest and best detector yet... Your wife (that has now accepted the fact) that you're not going to change, again ask in her sarcastic tone, when/where does it end!? You hit the door running, and off to a new place to test out the newest edition to your arsenal of detectors... Time goes on, and you wake up 10 yrs older than when you 1st began this venture... Your kids have grown, things have changed, people have come & gone... Friends have been made, and some have been lost forever somewhere in this madness and fury of treasure hunting... Divorces have happened, people have moved, you've sold the old house, and purposely bought a larger old Victorian with an acre of prime detecting land to continue with your quest for treasure... Your wife loves the new house, and the new neighborhood, and you love the finds you make on the property... You now wake up one day and realize, "treasure hunting is who your are, it's in your blood, it is part of you, and there's no going back or stopping until the end"!

True story of MY life and how treasure hunting has changed me/it and people within (only the names were left out) and some of the circumstances altered to protect the innocent!

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Lonewolfe
 

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Let's not forget those that prefer to lay around and do as little as possible to get by. They still might enjoy your hobbies but tend to act like a 10 lb bag of russets on the sofa. They might help support the household income but then spend it on paper plates and plastic ware. LOL They know how to as certain questions like "Honey, how do you work the remote?" or "Where's the phone?"
They own a vacumn sweeper but the only fingerprints on it are yours and the guy that sold it to you. ;) So you wind up with an estranged spouse and still live under the same roof. They say they still care but where is it?
BTW, the axe is being sharpend as we speak. Ya got any Chicken Helper? ;D
 

stoney56 said:
Let's not forget those that prefer to lay around and do as little as possible to get by. They still might enjoy your hobbies but tend to act like a 10 lb bag of russets on the sofa. They might help support the household income but then spend it on paper plates and plastic ware. LOL They know how to as certain questions like "Honey, how do you work the remote?" or "Where's the phone?"
They own a vacumn sweeper but the only fingerprints on it are yours and the guy that sold it to you. ;) So you wind up with an estranged spouse and still live under the same roof. They say they still care but where is it?
BTW, the axe is being sharpend as we speak. Ya got any Chicken Helper?? ;D

LOL!
 

epi-hunter,
Are you available at this point in time? :D Seriously, you sound like a most reasonable PERSON and thats a rare find.
About my statement concerning the numbers of lady MD'ers, I was speaking from my personal experience. I have been detecting for only a year, but in that time have never seen a female detector in the field. When I read the posts on TNet, I read mostly male viewpoints, when I look at the member map, I see decidedly fewer red dots. My observation was in no way meant to be a derogatory remark about ladies: it was simply a numbers game statement. Personally, I'd be willing to bet that any lady TNeter could outhunt me any day of the week.(I'm still lousy but hoping to get better)
JW, I re-read the post and see exactly what your point covered. You were right, I was a bit too hasty reading what you wrote.
grizzly bare
(PS epi, if you're the future love-of-my-life, please let me know quickly)
 

I think we, women, included can be obsessive with our hobbies, too. I know I am. Also, many of my girl friends are obbsessive shoppers. Although, some are obsesive hunters and fisherwomen.

Seems to me, many people think love is mainly being physically attracted to someone but if you don't base a marriage on friendship and common interests, there could be trouble.

I took up metal detecting to be closer to my husband. He's kinda an obsessive game hunter and shed horn hunter. I like the chase in hunting but not the kill and elk antlers are to big and heavy for me to pack very far. I like jewery, glass, and anything old or vintage. Now I can find my treasures myself instead of buying them. (shopping is a kind of treasure hunt for some ladies) My Guy and I use radios to keep in touch in the field and share our finds. This seems to work for us it was just a matter of finding some common ground.

By the way guys, there seem to be quite a few outdoor oriented women in the rural west but could be because this area draws that type of person.
 

Actually women haven't changed at all. There were those that had the Pioneering spirit, picked up a gun and proved their worth, there were those that picked up their skirts and came with their men, and then there were those that looked West and said "Ewwwww."
 

The only 'woman' in my life is my 12 year old daughter. She doesn't care about detecting but she loves to look over the finds and count the money. ;) Being a single-parent and a cop, I don't have a lot of time to detect, but I get out a few hours a week.
If I get involved again, it will be with someone who understands you need a life together and a life apart. You aren't going to share all the same interests, and you can't ursup another's every available free moment.
 

Lonewolf,
Interesting, but it does not apply to me.
I married for the first time at 43, to a cutie 20 years younger. She was very into the hobby with me for the first two years, but we now have two little boys ages 1 and 2, and almost never hunt anymore. The CZ-6a and the GTAx 1250 just sit in the closet the last 3-4 years.
Wifey is different from me in her detecting ways. Not as patient, but luckier. If we go to an old school, she will search the playground, snapping up the easy change, while I search the fields. I generally find better/older coins, but she almost always finds more.
We were doing well until the kids came, finding thousands of coins a year.
I am 50, and most guys my age would not have little boys at home. And although I miss detecting, I love my little tornadoes like crazy.
I am able to retire as early as 55, and will probably do so close to that age. Until then, I hope to at least keep a hand in the hobby.
As for your partners wife leaving him, I am sure she would have found another excuse if that one had not sufficed.
 

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