glass half fool
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M y Mom was born a city girl .Along with here 2 sisters they lived in a medium size town While they where not ever farmers many of their close relatives where living on a farm When she got older she ended up marring a farmer also And that turned out to be a cousin to my Dad And just to keep it interesting that brother t he one that married to my Mom's sister married an Aunt to my Mom So my Mom and her sister were married to cousins and the cousin and the cousin that was married to my Moms sister had a brother that married the Aunt to the two females in this story It is simple if i attach a few made up names to the tale of romance to rural and I DO MEAN RURAL FARM LIFE IN THE LATE `1700.S into the middle 1900's people where not on the landscape Travel was walking or horse and buggy Ant there was a very limited amount of socializing to be involved in So my Mom FE 1 married MA 1 The sister to my Mom FE 2 married MA2 Who was a cousin to my Dad And then MA3 a brother to MA2 married FE3 who was an aunt to FE1 AND FE2 AND A SISTER TO MA 3 WHO WAS THE FATHER TO FE AND E2 It is not as confusing as it seems one you understand the situation An there was nothing unseemly or improper taking place It was a supply and demand occurrence taking place not many of the opposite sex available to be a partner with So it often was kept in the family just because it was not much to end up with Anyway due to the family ties the many relative farmer relationships meant they where very tight knit groups And they bonded within those groups over common hobbies and things they enjoyed My Mom left the city for farm life in the 1940's She had a large task before her raising a large family helping with farm chores such as milking cows tending a garden and putting up food Some how she also made time to plant some of her r favorite flowers Among them where peonies ,roses. and daffodils and she usually had some zinnias planted The various colors and sizes and the ease of growing them made than a great addition to summer time flowers I have an area that catches the early morning sun And the location makes it a good spot to add color into the front of my house I often think of my Mom busy with all the days jobs she dealt with day to day And yet she took pride in her flowers as her role changed she spent more time with her flowers and it was noticeable just by looking at her flowers As I get older I find myself trying to grow some of the things she liked And Zinnia have become a favorite of mind that she would plant when she was growing them