I NEED YOUR HELP; IM GOING ON MY FIRST REAL DATE IN YEARS!!

[Teprock]

I NEED YOUR HELP; I'M GOING ON MY FIRST REAL DATE IN YEARS!!

Hi, I'm 24 years old and I've only been on one date in my life, and that was when I was 19! Maybe I am too shy or something, as I prefer metal detecting and baseball cards over chasing girls. Give your nerdy friend some advice before I ruin this rare opportunity for me :roll:



Thanks Folks, Teprock 4-10-04 Saturday

 

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[lab rat]

I NEED YOUR HELP; I'M GOING ON MY FIRST REAL DATE IN YEARS!!

In all seriousness:

You gotta realize if she has tendencies towards tardiness, that isn't going to change, no matter what you do. If it t.'s you off, you either gotta change yourself or look elsewhere. If she's worth going after, it's worth forgetting her bad habits. I made up my mind a long time ago that the girl I marry is the one that can't do any wrong, even when she's wrong. If I can see past any/every fault of hers, she's the one I'd risk everything for. If she feels the same about me, nothing would ever part us and thats the kind of marriage I want. Heck, I'd ditch my detector in a heartbeat if I could find someone like that!

I can understand your nervousness at having to wait for someone whom you have concerns over, but face it: If she wants to turn away, let her do it. It does no good to force someone to try to be close to you. The harder you try the farther they go. If you can't bear her tardiness, let her know the first time its just because you miss her. But if it gets to be an ongoing problem, what are you going to do when the REAL problems start showing up? If you can't accept the inconvenience she causes, but continue to pursue, that tells me right off you're in for a rough ride and lots of frustration. Hate to be so candid, but that's how it appears.

 

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[Teprock]

You guys are right 100%

Sorry guys for not being 8) . I shouldn't talk about "dating punctuality" when I've only dated two girls in my life.


I HAVE GREAT NEWS FOR ME--CATIE CALLED ME 2 NITE AND ASKED ME TO TAKE HER TO "THE POINT" (NEAR MY OLD GYMNASIUM)! I THINK SHE WANTS TO TAKE MY VIRGINITY 2 NITE


Ahh, do you remember PROM NIGHT, when most of you guys probably lost your virginity? I never made it to prom--couldn't find a date even if I wanted to go :cry:

Here's some personal questions...

When did you lose your virginity and at what kind of place?


IS IT OKAY FOR THE GIRL TO "PUT THE MOVES" ON THE GUY OR SHOULD THE GUY ALWAYS BE THE HUNTER AND THE GIRL THE HUNTED?


8) 8) 8) THE NEXT TIME I LOG ON I MAY NOT BE A VIRGIN NO MORE ~bYE bYE!~

 

[goldpanco]

wife

i went to St Petersburg russian and found a perfect wife at Svetlana agency :lol:

 

[coinshooter]

I NEED YOUR HELP; I'M GOING ON MY FIRST REAL DATE IN YEARS!!

People always ask me on the beach, "what's your best find" . I always tell them, "my wife". They always give me a quizzicle look and then smile. always stumps them because they are looking for the typical, "well, duh, I found this here Rolex".

 

[coinshooter]

I NEED YOUR HELP; I'M GOING ON MY FIRST REAL DATE IN YEARS!!

I found this the other day and it fits your circumstances perfectly Teprock.
Do the math and you will figure this out! 8)

 

[Teprock]

I NEED YOUR HELP; I'M GOING ON MY FIRST REAL DATE IN YEARS!!

WE BROKE UP

HOWEVER, IT'S FOR THE BEST. WE'RE STILL FRIENDS AND ALL, SO THAT'S GOOD. I AM SAVING MYSELF FOR MARRIAGE, AS I BELIEVE THAT PRE-MARITAL SEX IS A SIN. AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO THINKS THAT ON HERE?


THANKS FOR YOUR HELP THROUGHOUT MY RELATIONSHIP WITH CATIE, FOLKS. I REALIZED THAT I DO NEED TO LOOSEN UP.



LIFE IS ALL ABOUT EXPERIENCES--THIS WAS JUST ONE OF THEM. LIFE GOES ON, AS I'M SURE THAT THERE ARE SOME OTHER CHicKS WHO BELIEVE THAT PREMARITAL SEX IS A SIN, too.


God bless and good night! ~Teprock

 

[BassPro2]

I NEED YOUR HELP; I'M GOING ON MY FIRST REAL DATE IN YEARS!!

If the marrige thing comes up........ :shock: Run , Run as fast as you can. :P

 

[coinshooter]

I NEED YOUR HELP; I'M GOING ON MY FIRST REAL DATE IN YEARS!!

Teprock,
Your doing the flip-flop. One minute all you can do is talk about "tonight is the night I'm going to lose my virginity" and the next your a holyer than thou cchior boy who's not ready to give it up until we get married. No wonder she dumped you! You need to make up you mind before you even start dating what you want and then stick to your morals! 8)

 

[Cladius]

I NEED YOUR HELP; I'M GOING ON MY FIRST REAL DATE IN YEARS!!

Come on ease up on the poor guy! Lack of sex will confuse anyone! And besides he's only one devorce behind most guys his age. He has plenty of time to catch up.

 

[Lowbatts]

I NEED YOUR HELP; I'M GOING ON MY FIRST REAL DATE IN YEARS!!

Now Claudius, I gotta go with Coinshooter on this one. Indecision kills. Especially where love is concerned or confused with lust or just plain confused.

I want to dig that signal because it's the best sounding deep target I've hit, has to be real silver but never dug it before and if I dig it now then it'll be my first silver and I was saving my first silver dug for 6,000 reales and this sounds like a dime and what if I settle for this target and it's a dime then the next target is not the case of reales but I'm stuck digging it because I started here and wound up over there on my way to somewhere else and ahh nevermind.

It don't sound any more rational with females than it does with MD'ing!

Teprock, slwo down and use more discretion and don't worry about setting your disc too high if it's someone you want to feel comfortable with while you're asleep and vulnerable....

 

[SILVERHOUND]

I NEED YOUR HELP; I'M GOING ON MY FIRST REAL DATE IN YEARS!!

teprock you are never gonna get laid.I think you are a smart guy who over thinks everything.Relax, remember your going to hell anyway for all you do with your right hand, so at least be with a woman.Life is fleeting, everyday you drift farther from your sexual prime.You have wasted it all by analizing things until they pass you by.Wake up and taste the sweet nectar.Dating is the easy part, if you have problems getting dates its on you.Forget money, cars, get healthy and in shape, workout, run and the women will be there

ps this topic is silly for a md site go see a therapist