Hey, that brings up a funny story.
When I bought my first detector, I took it to the beach. My girlfriend at the time said she was going to take a walk on the beach while I detected. When she came back, she asked me if I had found anything. I showed her a really nice gold ring with some diamonds and a large Tanzanite in the center. She just about died. Then I got down on one knee and asked her to marry me. True story. SO I guess you could say I found my wife on the beach! 8) 8) (Yes, she did say yes). 8) She survived the period where I got "hunt crazy", and now she tolerates it (and sometimes I think she enjoys the time to herself). Seems like now, I am more mellow about going out hunting and so have not been given the old "You spend more time out hunting than you do with us", speech in a long time. I think now she enjoys seeing me happy and she also enjoys sharing in the spoils occasionally. But...my advice would be to try and find a woman who enjoys it as much as you do, or one that really enjoys her time alone (or with the kids), because it's no fun getting hassled over doing something you like to do. I finally just said "Look, this is something I really enjoy doing, it gets me out of the house and exercising, and it's fun and you better get used to it because I don't plan on quitting". Somehow that was where I drew the line and somehow after that we have matured to a point where she can accept this is something that really adds value to my life. 8)