Tom_in_CA
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- Mar 23, 2007
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- Explorer II, Compass 77b, Tesoro shadow X2
Here's a true possibility:
If you've been into the hobby for any length of time, then no doubt you've been called out to find things for friends, relatives, etc.... Like someone looses a ring, and call you, because they know this is your hobby for instance. Heck, my own wife lost her earing 2 times, and each time I went out and found it: Once in a public park, and the other time in our own front yard while she was gardening. Each time she figures: " oh I'll just get Tom to find it".
Next: If any of you have found gold rings, you no doubt thought "bingo, score another". I mean, duh, why else are we in the hobby, right? If you look at the finds forums on any md'ing website, you will see lots of daily examples (especially on beach forums) of fellows finding gold rings. Right?
Ok: with the above 2 facts in place, then picture this:
Your wife is out at the city park with your toddler son or grandson, pushing him on the swing set. She sees her wedding ring fly off as she gave a big push to the kid on the swings. She walks over to where she thought she saw it fling to, and scratches around in the loose sand. But to no avail
But she thinks to herself: "My husband has a metal detector, so I'll just have him come find it." So she calls you on her cell-phone, and explains. You agree that this is a cake-walk easy-to-find item, and let her know that as soon as you get off work, you'll swing by the park.
That afternoon, you get off work, and go to the park, and walk to the exact area your wife described a few hours earlier. But lo & behold, you can't find it
After 5 minutes of scrubbing the snot out of all the possible areas it could have flung to, you notice a gentleman sitting the park bench watching you. Eventually the stranger's curiousity gets the better of him, so he comes over to see what you're doing. And then he says to you "gee it's funny that you're hunting so hard in this small confined area. Because I've been sitting on that bench for an hour. And about an hour ago, another man came along detecting that area. And as he passed by this one spot, I saw him stop, study something he'd just found, let out a 'yahoo', and then he left".
So you quickly deduce that this stranger must have found your wife's ring!
Ok then: who does the ring belong to : You and your wife? Or to the person who found it?
If you say "It still belongs to my wife and I", then ........... how do you justify your position of paragraph 2 at the start of this thread? I mean, how then do you willfully keep other rings you've found ?
Perhaps you'll say "because they don't have identifying marks". Hmmm, ok then, why pray-tell did you think it was ok for the guy who beat you to the sandbox, to keep your wife's ring, "because it had no identifying marks"? You certainly thought HE had no right to keep your wife's ring, and that finder's keepers didn't apply, right? So how the double standard ?
If you've been into the hobby for any length of time, then no doubt you've been called out to find things for friends, relatives, etc.... Like someone looses a ring, and call you, because they know this is your hobby for instance. Heck, my own wife lost her earing 2 times, and each time I went out and found it: Once in a public park, and the other time in our own front yard while she was gardening. Each time she figures: " oh I'll just get Tom to find it".
Next: If any of you have found gold rings, you no doubt thought "bingo, score another". I mean, duh, why else are we in the hobby, right? If you look at the finds forums on any md'ing website, you will see lots of daily examples (especially on beach forums) of fellows finding gold rings. Right?
Ok: with the above 2 facts in place, then picture this:
Your wife is out at the city park with your toddler son or grandson, pushing him on the swing set. She sees her wedding ring fly off as she gave a big push to the kid on the swings. She walks over to where she thought she saw it fling to, and scratches around in the loose sand. But to no avail
That afternoon, you get off work, and go to the park, and walk to the exact area your wife described a few hours earlier. But lo & behold, you can't find it
So you quickly deduce that this stranger must have found your wife's ring!
Ok then: who does the ring belong to : You and your wife? Or to the person who found it?
If you say "It still belongs to my wife and I", then ........... how do you justify your position of paragraph 2 at the start of this thread? I mean, how then do you willfully keep other rings you've found ?
Perhaps you'll say "because they don't have identifying marks". Hmmm, ok then, why pray-tell did you think it was ok for the guy who beat you to the sandbox, to keep your wife's ring, "because it had no identifying marks"? You certainly thought HE had no right to keep your wife's ring, and that finder's keepers didn't apply, right? So how the double standard ?
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