Despite being a civil war bullet digger and for over 35 years, I do not recognize that bullet as being a civil war era (or earlier) bullet.
It is from a metallic cartridge, because you can see the shallow, very narrow "crimp groove" made by the casing's lip, just above the bullet's base.
Having "bore-lubrication grooves" on the lead (not metal-jacketed) bullet's body indicates it is pre-1900. That fact, in combination with the other two mentioned above, indicate to me that it is from approximately 1870 to near the end of that century.
Need super-precise measurement of its diameter (in hundredths-of-an-inch), made with a digital Caliper gripped around the bullet's middle, and measured at more than one spot on the middle. (Being a fired bullet, we'll have to calculate the average of several measurements.)